A forgotten thank you

Ciara bounces herself to sleep daily in her jumparoo

look at all my candy

I'm concentrating
Cinderelly

Happy Pumpkin

Happy grammy

Hmmmm...whats this

asleep again

Aaliyah bathing Ciara

and again asleep

Ciara is doing wonderful again today weighing in at 12lbs 8 oz. She had her first RSV prevention shot today called Synagis. For those of you who don't know RSV is a respiratory virus that can attack Ciara's weak and vulnerable lungs. Because she was so premature our insurance company and her pediatrician are trying to do everything they can to keep her out of the hospital during these winter months. Ciara has a social worker from Highmark that calls us monthly to check on her and make sure we have everything we need for her. Now that it is officially cold/flu season Ciara won't be going out into public very often. I talked with the pediatrician today and she felt it would be ok to take her to church as long as I don't let anyone touch or be around her that is sick. Also I need to ask them to sanitize their hands before holding her. I am not a confrontational person, but I need to figure out a way to keep my angel safe. I won't be taking her to the grocery store or to the mall unless for some reason I absolutely have to get groceries and I can't find a baby sitter. I'm pretty sure between Corey, my parents, and Grandma Benson we'll be ok. The doctor also asked if Aaliyah was going to preschool or daycare. I told her that she does go to the daycare down the road occasionally to learn and be with other children. She advised me not to send Aaliyah unless I absolutely felt the need. When Aaliyah is around other children she brings home all the germs with her. So I decided that unless Aaliyah asks me to go to "school" I will just continue playing with her at home and working on our ABC's and so on. She honestly hasn't been there for a couple of weeks because she has had one cold after another.

After our visit to the pediatrician today we stopped by the Punxsy maternity unit to visit the nurses. These girls were an absolute life saver when I went into labor that snowy February morning. When we were told we would deliver our baby any minute and she would not survive, these girls were right there holding my hand, praying, and crying with me. There were a couple in particular that I really got close with and will have a special bond forever. Dawn Fulton was like my mom during my 2 week stay and I love her so much. She took care of me like I was one of her own and I really appreciate her compassion and love during that time. Candi Knox, who was my best friend in school, was also a nurse who I connected with. Unfortunately when I was on bed rest that meant complete bed rest and I had to go on a bed pan. At first it was REALLY embarrassing for me to have my friend wipe my butt!!!!! But as time went on it just became really funny. Who knew someday she would be doing such a thing for me. Ashley Parsons also has a special spot in my heart. That girl always made sure my hair was clean. She was so wonderful to wash my hair and my entire body!!!! I was not able to bathe myself either and those girls were my angels. There are many other nurses that I did not mention that did so much for me. Mrs. Lingenfelter ( I honestly can't remember her first name, sorry) on night shift had me laughing every night and Carol was so sweet to me always. These girls were sent from God to be there with me in my darkest hour and I thank him and praise him for such wonderful care takers that are now friends. Dr. Khan and her staff were also so so good to me. GeGe, Patty, and Lisa came down during their lunch breaks and after work to see how I was quite often. I had such love and support from everyone! I love you all!!! Even though I did mention during the interview with the Spirit how wonderful the maternity unit was to me and my family there was just not enough room for everything. So this is my personal ad thanking these girls. There are not enough words to thank you and show you how much I and my family appreciate you. God Bless all of you, and we love you dearly!!!

Ciara and Aaliyah dressed up for Halloween this year and we went trick or treating. Corey was on call that night, and my mom wanted to stay at my house and hand out candy, so my dad drove us from family to family so the girls could show off their costumes. Aaliyah had her costume picked out for months and new she wanted to be Cinderella, or Cinderelly and she calls her. I originally wanted to dress Ciara up as one of the mice from the movie, but I could not find a mouse costume that was brown. All I could find were gray or white. So I decided she would be the magic pumpkin. It was more than easy to find a pumpkin costume. On Halloween night we went over to Corey's cousin Tracie and Wayne's house for a Halloween party. Aaliyah got sooooo much candy that night and was in sugar heaven!! When we walked into the party there were several people with masks on. Aaliyah was quite frightened and I had to explain to her that they were actual people and that the masks were fake. Finally we just had to ask them to take off their masks for a minute so Aaliyah could understand. After that she was fine and told Corey and me "those aren't real monsters."

The day after the Spirit ran our story in the paper I received a message from Gwen Miller on facebook about her daughter in law Sarah. Unfortunately Sarah's water broke at 23 weeks gestation and was contracting every 5 minutes. I immediately called Sarah's cell phone and we talked for an hour. By then she had stopped contracting but was faced with a hospital stay until her baby girl arrived. She also has a two year old at home and was not sure how she was going to take care of her while being on hospital bed rest. After finding some further complications, Sarah was transferred to Magee Women's Hospital in Pittsburgh. When she hit 24 weeks and 3 days her daughter Phalan arrived. Weighing in at 1lb 6 oz and only 12 inches long she has a long and bumpy road ahead of her. So far she is doing great and the last time I talked to Sarah she was on the regular vent but had not needed to be on the oscillating vent at all yet!! Please put Sarah, Phalan, and her family in your prayers. I will continue to give you updates when I receive them. God is with them and they are praying everyday for a healthy baby. I know how good God is and I praise and thank him everyday for our beautiful girls. I know that he has a plan and with his love and will anything can happen. Keep up the good fight Phalan!!!

Please continue to pray for Ciara and also our new little friend. God is so awesome.